On July 8th 2000 Mr. Kevin Rutter was assaulted
and abused by his former wife, Miss Hazel Walker. It had been arranged by
the parties respective legal counsel for Miss Walker to attend Mr. Rutters
home to uplift personal items. It had also been arranged for Miss Walker to
have her mother present as support person.
I live as a paying guest in Mr. Rutters home and had
just arrived back at 1015 with my 2 daughters, aged 11 and 7. Miss Walker
had arrived some seconds beforehand and had three persons with her
her mother, her sister, and an unknown male. They had arrived in a truck and
that truck was parked in the driveway, blocking in Mr. Rutters car.
Mr. Rutters fiancée Mrs. Vacharakiet came to
me and asked if she could remain in my room with my daughters until she could
leave the property. Apparently the respective parties had agreed that Mrs.
Vacharakiet was not to be present at this time, but neither Mr. Rutter or
Mrs. Vacharakiet or Mr. Rutters counsel had been informed of when Miss
walker would attend the property.
Mrs. Vacharakiet asked me if I would arrange for the truck
to be moved so she could leave in the car. I went upstairs. Mr. Rutter, Miss
walker, and her support persons were in the kitchen and Miss Walker was rummaging
through the kitchen cupboards for some personal possessions. As I entered
the kitchen, I saw Miss Walker rush at MR. Rutter, stopping right in front
of him, hitting him with her arm, and raising her leg as if to knee him in
the groin. Mr. Rutter did not react. Miss Walkers support persons witnessed
this assault also. Apparently Mr. Rutter had requested Miss walker to repack
items taken from the drawers/cupboards and left discarded on the floor.
Miss walker then went into the computer room to look for items.
Mr. Rutter and Miss Walkers mother also went into the room. I heard
Miss walker abusing Mr. Rutter and obviously trying to goad Mr. Rutter into
an action detrimental to his best interests. Mr. Rutter began to respond to
Miss Walkers taunting and abuse, and I therefore went into the room
and advised Mr. Rutter to leave the room. I then advised Miss Walker of Mr.
Rutters rights under the law, and I was going to ensure she did not
abuse him. Miss Walker then verbally abused me. I informed Miss Walker that
should her behaviour continue I would ring the Police and have them remove
her from the property.
Some 30 minutes or so later, Miss Walker, Mr. Rutter, Miss
Walkers mother, and sister were in the workshop downstairs. I was in
the adjacent laundry looking through the doorway. Miss Walker again abused
Mr. Rutter and tried to goad him into a response. When I advised Mr. Rutter
not to respond Miss walker tried to talk me down, and when I ignored her actions
she told me to F...k off.
Later in the day Mr. Rutter went to the Avondale Police Station
and spoke to Constable McNair. After some discussion Constable McNair noted
some details in his notebook and stated to Mr. Rutter that the Police would
speak to Miss Walker in respect of her behaviour. However, Constable McNair
did not ask pertinent details such as Miss Walkers name, address, or
telephone number. Constable McNair also informed Mr. Rutter the Police would
not investigate his complaint as the Court would not find against a female
assaulting a male He did however agree that had the situation been reversed
he would have had no option other than to arrest Mr. Rutter for assault.
Upon hearing this later in the afternoon, I rang the Avondale
Police Station and spoke to a Sergeant in the Watch House. He was aware of
Mr. Rutters complaint but told me the Court would not find a female
guilty of assaulting a male but the Police were obliged to take a complaint.
We also discussed relevant sections of the Crimes Act, the Domestic Violence
Act and evident discrimination against males in general and Mr. Rutter and
particular.
On the morning of 11th July, I telephoned and spoke
with Senior Sergeant Sutton, O/C Avondale Police Station, in respect of these
matters. Snr. Sgt. Sutton requested that Mr. Rutter come to the Avondale Station
and one of .his officers would take the complaint.
Mr. Rutter made his complaint and the matter was referred
to Avondale CIU. The file was subsequently actioned by Constable Wichmann,
Mt. Roskill Community Constable. This was apparently at the request of Snr.
Sgt. Sutton as his officers were busy investigating 20 armed robberies in
the district.
Some two weeks or so after the fact, Constable Wichmann spoke
with Mr. Rutter and Mr. Rutter subsequently informed me that the Police seemed
to be extremely reluctant to proceed and he had to justify his every action.
Constable Wichmann then went on leave and upon his return from leave informed
Mr. Rutter that the Police would not proceed with his complaint of assault
at the hands of Miss Walker. No explanation was given.
Mr. Rutter is extremely concerned at the apparent bias and
discrimination against him in this matter. The Police officers involved both
agreed with Mr. Rutters statement that had the situation been reversed,
then he would have been arrested forthwith, charged with the offence Male
Assaults Female, and detained in custody.
Regards,
Alan Sutherland
N.B. These views are those of the author and not necessarily those of the
NZ Equality Education Foundation.