Gender studies is study of gender
Wonder studies is study of gender from women's point of view
Mender studies is the study of gender from men's point of view
Currently women have done a lot of wondering -- it is time for men to do
some mending of the damage that has been done due to this wondering.
We are not able to get statistics since the police are refusing to part
with any information . Men committing suicide seems to increase by 50% after
marriage . Also the rate of suicide for divorcing men is 167 per 100000 which
is I believe is higher than even Australia. The Police refuse to accept false
accusation complaints under section 211 of the Indian penal code. Even though
most of the men in our organisation have clear proof of where all the money
for buying the stuff came from, the Police want to believe the women that
the man harassed for dowry. Ninety percent of the dowry and mental harassment
cases are false.
It has become a big business for the girl's family to treat every suicide
and death as a harassment and extract money. Their uncorroborated statement
that he demanded a dowry is accepted.
Every divorce case becomes a dowry harassment case, so that the man is left
to fight a criminal case and cannot fight the divorce cases properly, for
fear that anything untoward can be taken in some wrong spirit.
I fact, I am writing a book called "Patterns Of Innocence" which
will help the deaf and dumb police and judiciary to understand how the cases
can be quashed without going through trial .
I was a dupe and actually courted arrest by demonstrating for women who
had seemingly been harassed for a dowry. I still remember guys saying, "Hey
look at my receipts for all the household goods ! I paid for it !" And
the women and the crowd only shouted slogans.
Well, God has punished me for for harassing these innocent men and their
elderly families.